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Karen Gordon's avatar

so many small but profound insights here, and turns of phrase so pleasing they feel like candy. i love the slowing down to the point where everything becomes sensual. even asparagi! (i had to look it up to see if that is actually a word or you were just being silly. turns out it is! new info i will integrate into my vocab. its use here is quite fun.) hot showers - as good or better than therapy for sure.

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you so much, Karen! That's a delightful way of describing the text.

The use of "asparagi" was, in fact, tongue-in-cheek. I didn't use the term the way it's defined, but rather as a fake latin plural (something I do sometimes for fun, like hippopotami or campi).

And yes, hot showers, while not better than therapy, are certainly cheaper.

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Karen Gordon's avatar

so if i’m talking about a person’s hippocampus, and their friends show up and i want to be inclusive, i will refer to their collective hippocampi? ;)

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Amy Brown's avatar

These were all a delight to read, Gregory. Thank you for sharing your gorgeously quotidian with us.

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you, Amy!

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Dustye Muse's avatar

That kind of ritual with the espresso--it's the cup, the saucer, the spoon, sometimes a small doily even or diminutive piece of chocolate--can never really be replaced by a paper cup with your name scrawled on it, can it?

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

It certainly can’t! I do wish they would give chocolate in Portugal, but they never do. Thinking about it, though, maybe that’s for the best. Thanks, Dustye!

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Caroline Smrstik's avatar

What a lovely change of pace to read these vignettes— well done you, Gregory, for daring to mix up your stack!

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you, Caroline! I’ve been all about mixing it up lately. Probably not a good strategy, judging from the subscriber stats. But oh well, I’m enjoying it.

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Melanie Murrish's avatar

Well, what a voluptuous way to start my day. Don't even know if that's a correct description but it feels right. 😀

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

I like it, Melanie. May you continue to have a voluptuous day!

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Pamela Armstrong's avatar

Just snap the asparagus—no need to cut it!

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

I know that technique, Pam, but I have this belief—possibly erroneous—that it wastes more of the vegetable. Plus, I have a man's love of knives, I have to admit.

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Mao Zhou's avatar

Beautiful

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you, my friend.

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Michelle Ray's avatar

All about the daily espresso! It’s the ritual that does it for me.

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Absolutely.

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Robin Yaklin's avatar

grasp the cup by its tiny ear. This moment is the pinnacle of the day. Raising the cup to my lips, I inhale the rich, nutty steam and take a sip of the bittersweet suspension.

Soooo, missing my weeks in Italy. They, too, have the espresso magic going on. Thanks for the smile this brought.

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

I'm so glad it evoked a pleasurable memory for you, Robin!

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Bernardette Hernández's avatar

This was lovely Gregory! That espresso shot was stunning.

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thanks, Bernardette! I was thinking you would like it. ☕️

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Bernardette Hernández's avatar

I totally did! Thanks for the recommendation.

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Sally's avatar

Soooo much in here! Beautifully observed and written. All of them sensuous and suggestive in their own way. Product of an inquisitive and creative mind.

If you ever feel like turning a hand to romance novels you could be onto something…

Oh, and… asparagi??

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Sally, you are such an incredible sweetheart! I love the thought that I may possess "an inquisitive and creative mind". Romance novels? I think I have enough romance in the novels I have in progress, though if they don't work out, maybe I will try to write some things as Daniel Steel.

"Asparagi" was tongue in cheek. I've always thought that "asparagus" sounded a bit like Latin. Certainly better than the German "Spargel", anyway. 😊

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Lily's avatar

Very enjoyable Gregory!

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you, Lily! 🌸

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Linnéa's avatar

Beautifully written.

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you, Linnéa! 🌻

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Linnéa's avatar

Here's the thing (to quote a close and valued friend of mine): it is hard to transfer thoughts and perceptions – dare I say feelings? – into words without making them, the words, flat and uninteresting and rather silly. At least it is for me. And the more important the thoughts/perceptions/disf are, the harder it is. Thus, when you do manage to describe the sublime without it becoming flat or silly, that really is an achievement.

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you, this is a genuine compliment. I truly appreciate it.

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•the point of singularity•'s avatar

Gracias niño, iluminaste una semana difícil✨

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Siento tanto que sea difícil, querida! Pero me alegro de que te haya gustado.

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•the point of singularity•'s avatar

Muy chévere!!

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Rebecca K's avatar

This was a lovely insightful look into your daily life (which is, as such things should be, enchanting), thank you for this piece!

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you for that kind comment, Rebecca!

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Jan Darr's avatar

You write about the everyday in a way that makes them little jewels sparkling before me. Thank you 😸

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Gregory Garretson's avatar

Thank you, Jan! That's a wonderful thing to hear. 🙏

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